the poetic dreamer
- DO NOT DISTURB -
DREAMING IN PROCESS
The sun rays kisses my skin a gentle
The cool breeze swirls my thoughts a tender
I'm not sleeply yet I think I am
For I'm whizz away to paradise dreamland
the dreamer
# silvan
# reality dreaming or dreaming reality
loves
# his girl
# singing
# dreaming
wishlist
:: taiwan trip ::
:: bangkok trip ::
:: car with license ::
:: good results ::
:: stop dreaming ::
Friday, March 03, 2006
Yesterday watch the show, "My Girl & I", seriously, too much sad korean movie can make mi resist to be in a relationship... Most of the time these movies have sad endings, and I always try to think what if it is happening to me? If my girl die, will I be missing her? For 1day? 1month? 1year? 1decade? Forever till I place my legs into the coffin?
There is 4 kind of pain in a relationship...
The 1st kind i name it as "hamchi" pain. Hamchi in english means not dare to try. So, as the name inplies, you do not have the courage/dun dared to tell the other party that you likes her. Afraid of the pain of being rejected is the major obstacle here. However, if you never try, you never know. Maybe she also have a crushing on you?
The 2nd kind is "one-sided love", and is what happens after you have told the person about how you feel about her. Her reply normally is "let natural takes its course". If she is good, she may just rejected you straight away, rather than dragging on. If she drags on, you will feel so confused to give up on her or just continue to win her heart.(Which 50% chance is still nothing will happen...)
The 3rd kind is most common. This happen after the 2 of you are together but the girl wants a break-up with you or is unfaithful some time later. Very painful but if she dun love you anymore, you should let go. Normally, this kind of pain(torture?) will take months to heal or after you found your new girlfriend.
The last kind, the "korean drama" pain. Both of you love each other deeply. But it's just fate that she will be gone forever.(sobz sobz) It will happen, either under some sad circumstances or when both of you are aging. If you dun want it to regret anything, cherish every moment with each other. Always dun forget to tell him how much you love her.
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soulessfreedom out
@ |Friday, March 03, 2006|
